Friday, March 12, 2010

The More Things Change ...

What a wild ride. It all started out rather calmly, this process. Everyone was on the same team. Hope mom and dad can get it together as a team and get J and M back, live as a family and flourish. Then it changed to mom and/or dad, or any combination thereof. Now we just have our fingers crossed that one of them might actually be strong and mature enough to actually do this!

Dad doesn't do what mom wants, and mom goes ballistic. Mom tries to give my husband and I parenting tips (in the form of a Scientology child rearing guide) because we don't do things the way she would do them. My husband doesn't take kindly to the suggestions. Dad is trying his best to get up here and keep things copasetic with mom.

I am simply trying to stay focused on the task at hand. Be a good influence while I have them. We actually had a visit from a "pre-adoption" social worker this week. She said it is routine for her to visit, but I'm keeping a watchful eye on the situation ...

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